‘ SMILF ’ Canceled at Showtime After Two Seasons Variety Smilf refers to a strong and empowered woman who embraces her sexuality with dignity. She is unapologetically assertive in her passion, breaking societal norms with a refreshing attitude. Smilfshows that a woman can be sexy while still maintaining her independence. She is a source of inspiration to fellow females who strive for self-empowerment. Smilf stands for breaking the taboo around female sexuality and advocating for positive dialogue about self-pleasure.